Who Is God….Really!?!

Different people that come from different backgrounds and experiences have all come to God or turned away from God in their own way. Through my personal life’s journey I’ve found that some people may know God but can have some misconceptions about who God really is. Some see Him as something you can depend on, a constant and everything you need to live your best life. Others can see Him as a judge, someone who sits on a throne, waits for you to make a mistake and instantly send punishment your way. I will share Who God Really Is in my life.

Who is God…Really? I don’t know who He is to you but to me God is everything! Literally Everything! I could not live the life I live now without God. Trust me I tried it once and it was awful. I couldn’t win for losing, my mind was never clear, I was stressed, always trying to be a step ahead but in actuality I was 10 steps behind. I couldn’t figure out why bad things would happen to me. I was kind and helpful, I was a good person. Why couldn’t I get it together? It was because I had not fully dedicated myself to God.

After I figured that out, which I wish I would have done earlier I not only dedicated my life to God but He gave me something. A lot of somethings to help me become the woman He created me to be. Most of our lives we are searching and trying to figure out who we are and what our purpose on this Earth is. Well, I know someone who has those answers God!

I always had some sense of God because of the way I grew up. My mother made it mandatory that her children attend church. So I always knew of God and knew how to pray and go to Him when I needed. But it was not until I dedicated my life to Him as an adult that I fully experienced and came to understand who God really is. Even in some church experiences preachers can have misconceptions about God. They will tell you God is so powerful, which He is and all that He did in the Old Testament to punish those who didn’t obey Him. And those stories can pretty much scare the crap out of you. What I have learned and what is the most important and most powerful thing about God is His Love! His Love for us, and what He did to make sure we always have a way back to Him!

I know this may sound cliche’ but God is Love! You want to know God, know Love! You want to experience true Love, get to know God! God not only changed me into my best self but He also showed me what true Love really is, and in this He showed me Himself! Because of my Love experience with God, my fear of Him is reverence for Him not actual being afraid of Him because of His power. My relationship with God is like a Best Friend and Parent/Child Relationship all in one. I can go to Him for anything, I can express myself with Him freely and if it is something I am need or want  He provides it for me! Because of God I cannot be fooled by deceitful people or by the devil himself. I know that everything I need is in God! And to honor His love He shows me everyday I continue to keep Him at the forefront of my life and include Him in everything that I do!

God is Love! God is Everything You Need! God Knows All! God is Life! This is Who God Really Is!

 

Happy Monday! ❤️

XOXO,

JB

Walking In Your God Given Purpose With Confidence!

 

In order to gain Confidence and boldly live out your purpose for God you must first know who God created you to be. Once you understand and accept your God given Identity then you can begin to fully live out your life’s purpose.

As we all have experienced at one time or another, nothing worth having comes easy. There are obstacles, difficulty and temptation constantly working against us. So of course in order to stay on your path and stand firm you have to not only know who you are but also what your God given purpose is. In order to find this out you simply ask God.

In this life it seems that we always have questions, “Why Me?, Why now? Now What?” Having questions is definitely natural and it is always okay to ask God for clarification. It’s the only way to be sure you are headed in the right direction. I always say and practice that I consult with God before making any decisions. That includes big decisions such as, “what career am I supposed to be in?” as well as the smallest decision like “where should I go to eat today?” It may sound strange to some people but this way I am sure I never stray off the path God has for me.

The main thing that also ensures I’m living out my life’s purpose is my prayer life. Prayer is not only a way to ask God for things but also to connect with Him. Being connected with God is essential to confidently walking in your purpose. Remember God knows all so He will never lead you wrong!

Once you know who you are, what your purpose is and have a connection with God, you have all you need now and forever to walk boldly and with confidence in the purpose and life God has designed just for you! Stand firm, trust God and never give up!

Happy Sunday! ❤️

XOXO,

JB

God’s Love Is Everything!

The way God Loves is very different from how we as humans love. God’s Love doesn’t come with stipulations or conditions. God’s Love goes on forever and never gives up. God’s Love waits patiently on us to come to Him and live the life He has designed just for us. God’s Love doesn’t judge our personalities and characteristics. God’s Love is the best kind of Love that anyone can receive. God’s Love is the only Love of it’s kind, the original and true meaning of what Love truly is.

When you think of all the goals you have in life I guarantee for most people finding true Love is on that list. Love is what we feel can make us complete, fill the void in our lives and bring our lives full circle. If you have everything but you don’t have Love then you ultimately have nothing. Have you ever wondered why Love is considered having everything? Why is it that our lives always feels as if something is missing if we don’t have Love? Often times we go about searching for Love in all the wrong ways. We hope that one day we will meet the one person in this world who understands us, completes our sentences and can see us for who we are. We look for this Love from another human, a man or a woman. That one person who will give us the Love we see in romantic movies, the person who will make us feel like a Disney Princess or Prince. This Love does exist but not in the way we imagine. For any human to be able to give this kind of Love they must first experience the Love of God!

God has personally shown me what Love truly is, I mean come on He created it. When I once upon a time struggled with feeling unloved by people God showed me that what others had shown me was not true Love. Only God’s Love can do all the things we think Love is. God may not like something I do but He never takes His love away! He is always there for me when I need Him, He answers my prayers and my questions, He provides what I need and want! God’s Love is truly everything! When God says “All we need is in Him” it is so true! Even if I am not feeling myself I can go to God and He reminds of who I am! My identity comes from Him! I know that if I had not experienced God’s Love I would not be able to truly Love someone else. Because Of the Love God has shown me, every void has been filled, every area of my life has lined up with what He has promised. God’s Love Is Everything!

Not only did God show me what Love is but He also fine tuned me so that my heart is pure and open. This is the only way to receive God’s Love and everything that comes with it. This is also the only way to be able to give true Love to others! You cannot say you truly Love someone else until you have experienced Love yourself! If you haven’t already received God’s Love just go to Him sincerely and He will give it to you! You do not have to be perfect, or earn it, He already Loves you, you just have to receive it!

Happy Friday! 🙂

XOXO,

JB

New Place, New Level: Everybody Can’t Come

When God increases you and brings you to a New Place it is very common to experience changes in every area of your life. As humans we naturally see change as scary or something unfamiliar but in fact the changes that God brings are the best changes for our lives and propels us further into fulfilling our life’s purpose.

I’ve had this very conversation with one of my cousins and she so profoundly​ said sometimes we pass up others that may have had a part in our lives. These people may have been titled as “friends” or someone you may consider close to you. You may realize as you move forward with God these relationships begin to change or become stale. My cousin also said “I don’t feel any kind of way about those whom I’ve left behind.” When she said that it got me to thinking specifically about my journey and how God told me once I surrendered my entire life to His plan that everybody can’t come!

When God increases you He gives you everything you need to prepare you for your New Place! Some relationships are temporary and may not be meant to extend to where you are going. It’s okay to move forward and allow those relationships that seem to all of a sudden dwindle out stay out. Sometimes this is hard for me for I’ve had very many people call me “friend” but not many be a true friend to me. So I’ll still check in every now and then with “friends” and try to plan a time to spend time with them, but I’ve finally realized Everybody Can’t Come!

God will supply all Divine Connections​! I should not try to keep up relationships that were only meant for seasonal purposes, I’m on my journey and living out my purpose, those that are supposed to be in my life will be! I trust God with every area of my life and I will trust Him to bring forth the Divine Relationships that are meant. Those that are not, well I’m in a New Place and I don’t feel any kind of way about it!

Be conscious of who you decide to spend your time with. Ask yourself is this person living out their purpose? Am I trying to hold on to a relationship that is naturally dwindling away? Know that God knows best and when you allow Him to lead you. He will only lead you down the best path that contains the Divine Connections you need!

Now you can step into your New Place with confidence! Be bold and continue to live the life God has purposed you to live!

 

Happy Hump Day!  🙂

XOXO

JB

 

 

The Favor Of God Taking You To New Places!

There is absolutely nothing like the Favor Of God! God’s Favor in our lives allows us to surpass and exceed our life’s goals and fulfill our life’s purpose! When things align in your life to meet exactly what God’s word says know that it is the Favor Of God! The awesome thing about God is He freely gives us what we need to live our best lives. Not only does He provide us with the tools to master this life but also He gives us what we desire!

When in a partnership with God we should take nothing for granted, not a delay, trial, tribulation or event. Although God does not cause us grief, hurt or pain when events that cause negative feelings arise He has the solution to every problem! God loves us so much that He chases after us! That’s right! God wants you to live for Him and wants to help you to live your best life! Its not because of how good of a person you may be or because the universe is in your favor it is because of God’s love that He extends His supernatural Favor into every area of our lives!

Before I rededicated my life to God I used to think that everything bad or negative happened to me. I constantly would ask God “Why?” I often wondered how life could almost never be in my Favor and what did I do that horrible things always seemed to come my way. I often reflected on the good I had done, how nice I had been to others, how I had helped out friends and family but only received hurt, pain and anguish in return. I obviously had the wrong type of thinking back then, I thought my life should have given me good results because of how good of a person I was but little did I know it did not work that way!

It was only when I began to take my relationship with God seriously, made the choice to receive His love and  yield to His ways that I begin to understand what life was really about. I was on my own plan therefore I was lost but with God He showed me exactly what to do, where to go and had given me His Favor and grace to do all He planned for me! Sometimes we don’t understand things, we have questions and get lost in our own plans but God is right there all along watching and waiting for us to come to Him! Some places in life we will not be able to reach without God’s Favor! The way God does things is in an excellent order that we could only try to imagine. When God thinks of what He has planned for us and our lives it is on a larger scale, for a greater purpose and carries a greater meaning! God’s thinking is bigger than ours! He knows ALL!

God is Limitless and when we trust Him to help us live our best lives we are Limitless!! Isn’t that awesome!?! I know for a fact there were some decisions I couldn’t have made without God’s help, places in my career and personal life that I would not have been able to do on my own. But God’s Favor is on my life! Everything I set my hands to do prospers! Every desire of my heart God is fulfilling! I mean He is the best partner to have! I hold my relationship with God to the highest regard and continue to keep Him first in my life! I know without His Favor I would not be where I am today!

Everything begins and ends with God! I must say His word is true and everything I need and desire is in Him! Because of God’s Favor I am a confident woman, living her dreams! Literally, my dreams are coming true right in front of my eyes! I am amazed at how God has presented opportunities to me, allowed me get to places that exceed my education and experience all while making divine connections with others! I know His Favor has protected me, helped me, saved me and led me to be living the Divine Life! Literally Faith To Divine Life! Do not underestimate what God has created you to do! His Favor will get you to places you did not even know you were supposed to be! Trust Him!

Like I always say if you don’t believe me, then try Him for yourself! I guarantee you will be amazed!

Happy Thursday! 🙂

XOXO,

JB

 

 

Moving Forward With God!

While on the journey to Divine Life you will always experience increase. God increases our lives to different levels, each level being higher than the previous one. Once a new level is reached some things and people may stay on their current level while you are Moving Forward! Recognize that some people, things, characteristics and situations are meant to be in your life for only a season. Everything is not meant to be in your life forever, just like you may be rising to a new level some things and people are not meant to come with you.

With increase comes growth and wisdom. When God increases you He brings you to a new place in which you haven’t been before, a place where you are a better version of yourself. In this new place you do things differently, think differently and expect different results. All of our old habits, old friends and traditions may change. When this happens don’t spend too much time thinking about why these things have changed just embrace it and be grateful.

Everything God does is for a reason. Don’t take for granted how God is protecting you and leading you to what He has for you. Of course bad things do not come from God but if a situation occurs that you consider bad God will always make it work out in your favor. When I think about the relationships I’ve had with people and how they have changed I’m thankful! Everyone is not on God’s plan or seeking God’s best for their lives. Those that are on their own plans leading and guiding themselves will be separated from those of us who have accepted God’s plan for our lives. Being an example in the earth of all the awesome things God can do will attract some and deter others. Just know those whom are meant to be in your life at appointed times will be.

After you’ve accepted that the concept of increase sometimes means leaving others behind don’t feel bad about the journey God has set you on. Great things and people will come into your life and you can take comfort in knowing those things and people were sent by God. It will be very easy to recognize that which doesn’t belong. I always remind myself of that because we can easily develop a long term attachment for those who are only seasonal. As we continue to put God first and at the center of every area in our lives He will always reveal to us new things, new people, new places and new levels. No one can Move Forward always looking back over their shoulder. Don’t allow your past to affect your future!


Happy Monday! ❤️

XOXO

JB

He’s Never Failed Me Yet!!

 

Often times people wonder how I can go through life so sure that the things I pursue will work out. Well, I am not a psychic and I can’t predict the future but my relationship with God ensures that I will not fail because He cannot.

How can I believe so strongly in someone I haven’t seen? That’s an easy question, because I’ve experienced Him for myself! Some people may live their lives purely off of their own decisions which can be filled with error. Some people may only go by the things, they can see and touch right in front of them and that’s okay. I have chosen to believe God’s word, His promises and allow Him to lead and guide me in my life.

Why you may be wondering? Well, that’s another easy one. Once I was just like some people living my own way, by my own terms and making my own plans. I chose to begin  running an endless race chasing money and success. It was always my goal to make sure I never had to ask anyone for anything, in my mind I was gonna do everything by myself. After about 3 years of working good jobs and knowing deep down I wasn’t doing what I was passionate about but making money I burned out! Mentally, physically, and emotionally I could not do it any more! Even when my body exhibited signs that it was tired and needed rest, my brain was thinking “you have to do this, nobody else is going to help you or take care of you.”

The next event following these thoughts and me refusing to listen to my body, I experienced my grandfather whom of course I was very close with passing away. This happened on top of me being totally burned out, so what did I do? I tried to keep going, not really dealing with what was going on, suppressing my emotions, then I literally passed out at my desk at work. Seriously, I had to be taken away by an ambulance and taken to the hospital. This is when I knew I had to make a change!

The Summer of 2014 I went searching for answers of why, and what to do now? God answered me, changed my heart and gave me the direction to go in. I listened and rededicated my life to Him, to live the life He has planned for me with His help! He has done everything He said He would do in my life! He has increased me astronomically! So I’m always sure that His way is better than mine, even when things seem as if they aren’t going my way I am comforted because I’m on His plan! The things He has instructed me to do, the places He has told me to go and the ideas for my talents He has placed in my heart has only increased my life! I’m so grateful to God that He’s Never Failed Me Yet! He’s never said something that He didn’t do! I know He loves me because He has shown me what His love is and what He does for me daily proves that!

So I am sold out! People want to know how do I do what I’m doing? How am I sure things will work out in my favor? It’s because of my relationship with God! If you are still searching for your purpose in life, things are a bit unsteady and you are not sure which direction to go in. I encourage you to try Him for yourself! Do this with complete surrender, not half way! He will change your life and lead and guide you where you are supposed to be! I’m speaking from experience! Living by faith is just as difficult as not living by faith except it’s the best way to live! Let’s remember I’ve tried living my way. I’d rather live with God helping me than without! My relationship with Him gives me favor in places I wouldn’t have had on my own and causes everything I set my hands to do to prosper! You don’t get those benefits without God! I have 2 degrees, and I’m working on my 3rd certification but what God has taught me is more than any book or course can teach me! I know I need Him! What about you?

I pray that everyone reading this post finds their way to living the Divine life! You only have one life to live, why not make it your best life!?!

 

Happy Friday! ❤️

XOXO,

JB

Choosing To Be Constantly Thankful!

Every situation brings different feelings, when hardship strikes we often have thoughts of what it is we may feel that we need or want but don’t have. We can often fill our minds with thoughts of what our future will be like if our situation doesn’t change. We become consumed with life’s pressures of being successful and having more money than we could dream of. But having to worry about money and what it can buy us can cause us to be ungrateful and unthankful. Then we may find ourselves mumbling and complaining about what we wish we had instead of being Thankful for what we do have, the place we presently are and what God has promised for our future.

Geez Louise Life can be hard, things don’t go as planned, obstacles thrown in our way and the constant chase to be the world’s definition of successful. I’m hear to tell you I agree! Life is hard! Nothing worth having is easy! Know that God has a purpose and plan designed just for you. In order to achieve this, a partnership with Him is necessary! After you have hooked up with God, we expect for God to pour on the blessings in the form of money as soon as possible. Well, sorry to be the hammer that comes down on your head as I speak the truth, God’s promises does not automatically come to pass. I know, shocking right! God requires us to do our part, to stand on His word, Trust Him and pursue the ideas, gifts and talents He has placed within us! So what I am saying here is you have to do some work to get what God has promised you! I know another shocker!

Because we are required to work and do our parts we may experience periods of delay and difficult times. The awesome thing is that God is always there helping us and guiding us to what He has for us! When these times that you have not planned or deemed to be stupid or frustrating comes along, continue to be Thankful! All God has done for you up until this point was not for nothing! And pay attention, God may be teaching you something, revealing things, skills and people that will be important to your next level! God may be increasing you!

Don’t ever take for granted a situation the devil meant to be a tragedy turning around to increase your life! God does His best miracles out of tragic situations! Having an attitude of Thankfulness along with a Thankful heart will cause God to get to you what He promised much more quickly than when you are focusing on what you don’t have! In case you are a person who has been complaining more than being Thankful here are a few tips to get you started to achieving a Thankful heart and attitude.

Reasons To Be Thankful:

  • You woke up today!
  • You have the ability to do the work God requires!
  • You have the ability to speak things into your life as if you’ve already got them!
  • You can open your mouth and say Thank You God!

There you go! Make being Thankful a lifestyle! No matter where you are in life, I bet it is better than you were before! You have to Thank God for that! Working with God as your partner in life, every need will be met, you can make your dreams your reality and everything in your life is always subject to change! And when God thinks of change it includes increase and all He has promised you! Take God’s promises personally! He will always do what He said He would! He is doing great things for me and He will do them for you! Show God you can handle the best life He has planned! Be a good steward by always being Thankful!

 

Happy Sunday! ❤️

XOXO,

JB

 

Patience, Gratefulness & Worship!

On this journey God has placed me on I have acquired certain attitudes about life and God’s Plan. Attitudes that I believe are skills needed to get me through each level of increase God brings. Each level of increase consists of a process before the manifestation, the process although it can be difficult builds me up, makes my spirit stronger and teaches me key components that I will need once I reach the next level of increase. It is tough to see the value in the process while I’m in it but towards the end I see how God has added value to my life and my journey.

One of the most valuable skills I have learned is Patience. God has taught me the art of waiting. Timing is so intricate within God’s plan, everything is done at a specific time or within a season. I may not always understand it but the results of my Patience has been amazing thus far. I always remind myself in the times I become impatient that God knows what He is doing and I have allowed Him to have full control over my life. I have came this far because of God and He knows what is best for me. With Patience comes trust, trusting God through every situation and to solve every problem is important. There is nothing too hard for God and nothing He can’t do!

After learning Patience I’ve learned to have a attitude of Gratitude! Continuing to be Grateful for all I have now instead of worrying about what I don’t have and what I want to have in the future. Now don’t get me wrong I am a forward thinking person, I take time to meditate on my future and my goals. But I also make sure I am consistently being Grateful to God for increasing me from where I used to be. If you can show God you are Grateful with what He has blessed you with now, He knows He can trust you and bless you with more! I don’t take anything for granted from waking up everyday with Divine health and in my right mind to crossing paths with people who are meant to be in my life. I like to call it Divine Intervention, everything is for a reason.

Lastly I have recently gotten a deeper revelation of what it means to Worship! Worshiping God doesn’t have to mean what someone else says it means, but what it means to me which is having a special honor and reverence for God. In other words a special respect that you have for God that you don’t have for anyone else. Pastor Bridget Hilliard of New Light Christian Center explained it this way at the Women’s Conference this past week. This got me to thinking about my personal relationship with God and what it means. How I have come to know and love God so much that I trust Him in every area of my life! So I decided why Worship God only when you are going through something or on Sundays when you attend church. I’ve decided to show God how much He means to me daily, so I now include Worship in my routine. God means so much to me and I love to show Him the honor and place He holds in my life! Also Worship changes things! Since I’ve added Worship in my daily routine God always gives my spirit exactly what it needs to keep going, to stay strong and to accomplish my goals that day! I love it! The wonderful thing about God is He has so much to give us even if we don’t ask for anything and when we do ask for something He gives us more! Come On, who wouldn’t want to Worship a God like that!?! He is The Only God Like That!

Life has so many things going on, things to do, places to go, people to see, difficulties that arise but God is constant, always there, never changing, always loving, unending and everything we will ever need forever! I am more than ecstatic to know​ Him, love Him and have Him at the center of my life and everything I do! If He has taught me this much as of now, just imagine how much more He will teach me and show me! With God as the head of my life, I can master my life’s journey, be the woman He created me to be and fulfill my God given purpose on this Earth! And You Can Too!

 

Happy Tuesday! 🙂 ❤️

XOXO

JB

Don’t Panic, Step Back, Gain Clarity & Trust God!!!

In life it is inevitable that difficult and inconvenient situations will arise. Often times we may react instead of thinking things through, seeing the situation as a mountain instead of a molehill. When difficult times happen as they will don’t look so closely at the problem, for every problem God has a solution.

On this journey I have learned that reacting is not always the best choice, I can get angry, yell scream and throw an adult tantrum but the problem will still be there. When you have a problem you want it to go away as quickly as possible. You don’t want to prolong it or cause more problems and the only way to do that is first Don’t Panic! When we Panic our minds are clouded, when we are upset all we are thinking of is the problem that needs solving. Your mind is blocked off to coming up with solutions for the problem. This might sound simple but stay calm and give yourself time to process what you have been presented with.

Once you are cool, your difficult glasses are off and you now see the issue for exactly what it is. You won’t exaggerate or see the issue through a magnifying glass, you see and understand what is happening. Taking a Step Back in all situations is a good thing! Getting too excited about something great or that seems great at the moment may look different later. It works the same when difficulties arise. Stepping Back allows your mind to be clear after you realize the actual size of the issue.

After snapping back into reality and understanding the issue at hand now you can gain Clarity that will help you come up with solutions! Your mind is clear, your thinking is straight and now God can channel solutions for your problem through you! Things you couldn’t have thought of when you were upset will come to you. Lastly Trust God! You can trust that God has not thought of a problem that there is not a solution for! He knows all and provides us with all we need when we need it! He has instilled wisdom in you to handle any and all of life’s situations! Trust God that He will get you through any obstacle that tries to get in your way! The scripture that I love to say when things get difficult for me is “No weapon formed against me will prosper!” Meaning things will try to stop you from getting what God has for you but will not be successful in any and all attempts! So even when things seem unbearable Trust God! He Has Us!

I recently experienced this within my own journey. My cell phone decided to break, not because I dropped it or didn’t take care of it. In great condition it just stopped working, would not even turn on. No big deal right….well the bigger issue was I had a phone interview the next day! Go figure my phone breaks and now I can’t have the phone interview for the job I’ve been praying for! What!?! I did everything I explained to you today. Not only did I have a great interview (went to use the phone in my apartments office), I have a new phone and I have another interview tomorrow! I trusted God and although something so small but so inconvenient came up I have the victory! What God has planned is already a finished product! Nothing and No one can stop what God has for you!!!

 

Happy Hump Day! 🙂

XOXO

JB